Your $100k Skill Assessment – Community
Your Skill Is Community Building. Here Is What That Means.
Intro: Your $100k Skill
Community building and family connection
These days, a lot of people struggle to connect with their families. They sit at the dinner table in silence. They don’t know what to talk about, and they feel disconnected.
That’s where you come in. You have the gift of bringing people together and understand what makes families bond. That’s what families are desperate for.
What’s ahead:
Lesson 1: Find what people are already asking on Reddit
Lesson 2: Record your answer instead of writing it from scratch
Lesson 3: Market Yourself
Bonus Lesson - Give People Free Stuff First
Something You Could Give Away For Free
Lesson 1: Find what people are already asking on Reddit
Stop guessing what to talk about. Go where people are already screaming for answers.
Open an AI and ask: “What do people on Reddit most ask about or have trouble with around family connection, dinner table conversations, or bonding with family members?”
Take the top question. Go to Reddit and search that exact phrase. You will find real posts from real people describing their pain. Screenshot those pains or write them down. Now you have a list of topics.
We already found stuff related to your skill:
“How do I get my family to talk more at dinner?”
“What are good conversation starters for families?”
“How do I bond with my teenage kids?”
“What games can families play together to connect?”
“How do I get my family off their phones and talking?”
“How do I create meaningful family time?”
“What are good questions to ask my kids at dinner?”
“How do I make family dinners more enjoyable?”
“How do I get my spouse to open up more?”
“How do I build stronger family relationships?”
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Lesson 2: Record your answer instead of writing it from scratch
Now it’s time to make the first draft of your post. If your thinking “but I don’t know how to make videos” right now, don’t worry. You don’t need to be a social media star. You just need to do a little talking.
Videos must be quality get attention, but you don’t need Hollywood equipment.
Pick one of your post topics from Reddit. Open CapCut or your phone’s camera and use vertical mode. Record yourself giving great answers and solutions. Keep it under 60 seconds. Edit lightly and add captions if you want. Post to TikTok or YouTube Shorts. Then repeat.
Over time, your only goal is to make each video slightly better than the last.
Lesson 3: Market Yourself
Next, you’ll need to keep posting these short videos related to the topics around your skill. Then, post the videos organically on YouTube Shorts and TikTok.
Make at least 30 of these videos. Of your 30 TikToks/Shorts related to the book, some of them will get significantly more views or engagement than the others. This doesn’t mean that the videos are viral at all. They just have to perform at least 2x or 3x better than my average video. All you need is something that performed better than your average.
Average views:
Better than average views:
There are some different options for marketing your product or service. You can send cold emails. You can also cold call. But those take time, energy, and frustration. If you already have a full time or part time job, you might not have the time and energy after work that’s required to do cold calls and emails consistently.
If you want a more efficient way to delegate the marketing, run ads. If you don’t know how to run an ad online or haven’t done this before, don’t worry. I’ll explain how to setup your first social media ad in the steps below:
Download your higher performing videos from TikTok.
Post the same videos again on Facebook. But instead of posting them organically, make each post into an ad by pushing “Boost Post”.
The “title” of the post should talk about whatever you’re offering in the ad. So if you’re offering a cookbook with over 100 recipes, the title should say something like “Get my 100+ recipe cookbook”.
Finally, add a “learn more” or “click here” button to your ad that sends people to your product or service.
To start, set your budget to $5/day for 7 days. The first 7 days is just to see if the ad works well enough to put more money into. For the audience, just let Facebook pick it for you.
After a week, look at the results. If the ad made you money or broke even, run it again. If it lost money, tweak the headline or try a different video.
My first mistake with the Facebook ads was putting all of my money behind the one video that got the most engagement organically. I thought that just because people loved the video, it had to lead to sales. And I bet everything on this.
Don’t be like me. Don’t bet on one video that you haven’t tested yet. Even a video that did well organically can flop when you put money behind it.
Bonus Lesson - Give People Free Stuff First
A problem I personally came across was that people clicked my ads, but they never bought my product or service after they looked at it. The biggest reason was that people don’t feel safe buying from a person or brand they don’t know is credible. And on Facebook, I was an unknown guy with no following and no reviews from someone who had already bought from me.
I needed a way for the people who clicked on my ad to know I was credible and could actually produce results around my skill. I needed them to feel safe that they’d get their money’s worth if they bought from me. To do this, I stopped advertising my paid products and services. Instead, I started offering people free stuff that leads to my products and services.
For example, I sell an e-book on Amazon that teaches people to set their goals in a way that guarantees they’ll reach the finish line instead of giving up early. It sells for $4.99. However, I took one of the chapters from the book and made it into a 7 page pdf. On the last page of the pdf, I added a message that says “Want more tips on the best way to hit your goal? Get the full book”. Below that, I added a button that says “Click Here for More Goal Tips”. It links to my book on Amazon. Since the pdf is so much shorter than the book, I’m willing to give it away for free.
Now, instead of making ads that talk about the book for $4.99, I make ads that talk about(and send people to) the free pdf. The pdf is short, so it’s easy for people to consume. Best of all, it gives people a valuable snippet of the info they’d get in the paid book. So if they get to the end of the pdf, see I’m competent, and want more, they’ll be a lot more likely to buy the book without feeling risk.
Here’s an idea for something you could give away for free around your skill:
The Family Connection Kit.
This is a simple PDF with conversation starters and games for families to play that will help them bond and talk more, either at the dinner table or just hanging out together. It is Step 1 of a larger program on building family connection and community.
Description:
You want your family to connect. But dinner time is silent. Everyone is on their phones. You do not know what to talk about. This kit fixes that.
This kit gives you:
20 conversation starters for the dinner table.
10 family games that get everyone talking.
A simple framework for creating meaningful family time.
Tips for getting even the quietest family members to open up.
What is Inside:
A one page list of 20 conversation starters.
Instructions for 10 family friendly games.
A guide for turning any gathering into a bonding experience.
A checklist for creating a regular family connection routine.
Call to Action: “Get the Kit”
How they pay:
You give away Step 1 entirely for free. Right there in the free kit, they will see the first conversation starter work immediately. At the bottom of that free guide, you put a button that says “Want the full family connection program? It covers family communication, creating traditions, and building a supportive family community.” They click that and pay a one time fee of $97 for the complete program. Or $77 if they sign up within 48 hours. No recurring charges. No hidden costs. They only pay after the free kit shows them you can help. If the free conversation starters do not get their family talking, they will not buy the rest. But if they do, they will gladly pay for more.
Lesson 5: Start with blog posts
Use this template for your own writing:
Intro – Describe the problem, the solution, and what they will know by the end.
Step or Lesson 1 – Insert your first lesson.
Step or Lesson 2 – Insert your second lesson.
Step or Lesson 3 – Insert your third lesson.
Step or Lesson 4 – Insert your fourth lesson.
Step or Lesson 5 – Insert your fifth lesson.
Instead of writing the posts from scratch, save time. Go to ChatGPT and choose the option to speak your answer rather than type it. Record yourself speaking through an answer for each bullet point in your kit’s description. Then ask the AI to “please make a blog post out of my transcript following the outline I added.” Copy and paste the outline above into the same chat.
That gives you a rough draft. Edit it to sound like you. Make sure it relays the correct information. Once you are happy, add a picture from Google or Canva and post it on LinkedIn as an article. You can also use Medium.com or Twitter/X.
Do this for each point in your kit’s description. Posting these on social media helps you see what people like best. Then take your best posts, copy the text into a Google Doc, and save it as a PDF. That PDF is what you can offer people for free.
When people sign up for your kit...
When you use Facebook’s lead forms, you have the option to leave a message or link on the last page. I suggest leaving a link that goes to a Calendly signup page. Meet with anyone who signs up for 20 minutes. Get to know their family connection challenges. At the end, offer them the full program if they need more help.
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